Some women insist that maternity clothing is a waste of time.  I’m puzzled by this perspective.  While yes, some non-knocked up wear fits all through your pregnancy, there comes a time when something’s gotta give.

And for me, it’s the waistband.

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Women ask about losing the baby weight.  It’s nearly an obsession.  How long did it take?  Did breastfeeding help?  Have you taken a strollercize class?  Will I ever look the same again?

For me, losing the baby weight wasn’t impossible.  Looking at old snapshots, there I am holding a six-week old baby, in my size 12 jeans.  Maybe I was a bit flabbier, but I didn’t feel all that much heavier.

Then I went back to work full-time.  And in the whirl and swirl of 50-hour and more weeks, midnight feedings and life, the pounds piled on.  No sleep, no time to eat sensibly – heck, sometimes no time to eat – certainly no time for the gym.  

In two years, I gained back everything I’d lost.

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